Reflections
on Memorial Day and Christian Nonviolence
March
31, 2021
Today is Memorial
Day. Here in the United States we have three days each year dedicated to
different people who are or were associated with the United States military.
Armed Forces Day is meant to honor people currently serving in the military.
Veterans Day is dedicated to people who once served in the military but no
longer do. Memorial Day, which we observe today, memorializes the men and women
who died while serving in the military. Let me say right at the beginning of
this post that I intend nothing I say here to disparage anyone who is serving,
or has served, or who died while serving in the US military. I mean in no way
to minimize the loss suffered by the families of those who died while in the
military. I intend nothing I say here to judge or disparage those who have
served and are serving. My late father served in the United States Navy during
World War II. I have been pastor to many US military veterans. I respect them.
I don’t believe God judges them, and I don’t judge them either.
But here’s the
thing. I believe in, advocate, and try to live out Jesus’ teaching of
nonviolence. He told and showed us that nonviolence must be our way because it
is God’s way. I am convinced that violence, hunger, and disease are the great
banes of human existence. I also believe that the only way to stop violence in
the world is to have to courage to stop being violent in the world. Not to be
violent in our personal lives, not to be violent in our national life. The
entire purpose of any military forces, including our American military forces
is to be violent. Those forces therefore by their very nature contradict what I
believe to be God’s call to all of us.
I once heard an
American soldier say on television that his job was to kill people and destroy
their stuff. Precisely. We always hear that the purpose of the US military is “to
protect our freedom.” I don’t believe that that is primarily what our military
does. I think its primary function is to project and protect American political
and economic power in the world. Yet even if the purpose of the military were
to protect our freedom it would do that through the application of massive
amounts of violence. Military units may at times do things like serve people
suffering from natural disasters. Today the US Air Force may be flying
desperately needed oxygen to India. That’s all very well and good, but it isn’t
the military’s raison d’être. The US military, indeed every
military, exists to kill and to destroy.
We so universally
fail to think of the military that way. We don’t say it inflicts death and
destruction on people, we call it “service.” When someone identifies himself as
a veteran the cultural expectation has become that we respond “Thank you for
your service.” We don’t say that to teachers. We don’t say that to doctors and
nurses. What? Is what they do not better service than killing people is? People
serve other people in so many ways that are constructive not destructive, but
service in our country has come to mean military service and not much else.
The purpose of
the military is to kill and destroy. It is to inflict pain, misery, and loss on
other people. What it does when it is doing what it is there to do is brutal
and bloody, and we don’t much like brutal and bloody. So we cover up the horror
of military violence by calling it “honorable.” We perform elaborate ceremonies
at the funerals of military people who have died in war. We give their widows
neatly folded American flags in little triangular boxes. We give those to any
deceased veteran. We call mothers who have lost daughters or sons in our wars “Gold
Star Mothers,” as if a gold star could compensate for the loss of a son or a
daughter even if it really were gold. On formal occasions we dress our military
people up in striking dress uniforms in which they don’t even look much like
fighters. And it’s all a sham. It’s nothing but an attempt to hide from
ourselves what the military really does so we can continue to send our people
out to do it. We make the infliction of death and destruction honorable so we
can convince ourselves that it’s OK for us to keep inflicting them on people.
There is only one
fitting memorial to our women and men who have died serving in the military. It
isn’t a neatly folded flag in a triangular box. It isn’t the president in
civilian clothes giving a military salute even though he’s supposed to be a
civilian commander in chief. It is one thing and one thing only. It is the
creation of a world in which there will be no more Memorial Days or Armed
Forces Days or Veterans Days because there will be no more military violence. It
is for us to have the courage as a nation to stop fighting. To pursue peace
through distributive justice not through war. It is be use our country’s
massive natural and human resources to build up rather than to blow up. The
only meaningful and appropriate memorial to the ones we call “fallen” (as if
they had tripped not died) is peace. Is nonviolent resolution of disputes. Is
the people of the world caring for and about each other not trying to kill each
other. People will say it’s a dangerous world, and we must be prepared. It is a
dangerous world, but the an end to the violence must start somewhere. We’re the
strongest nation in the world. It has to begin with us.
Saying that may
cause some to call me a coward, but in this world in which violence is the norm
it takes as much courage not to fight as it takes to fight. Preaching peace
through distributive justice not peace through destructive violence takes the
courage to be called a coward and not back down. To take being called naïve and
unrealistic. In some places to endure social ostracism and scorn. And sometimes
to take violent assaults on one’s person without responding in kind. Jesus held
to his teaching of nonviolence and justice though it led him to the cross. Here
in the US we’re lucky I guess. Nothing like that is likely to happen to us. But
I have to ask: Do we have the courage to take it if it did come to that? Do I?
I don’t know. I just know that nonviolence is the path to which God calls us. I
pray for the courage to stay on that path no matter what, and I pray that more
people will catch the spirit of our national saints Martin Luther King, Jr. and
John Lewis and join me and lots of others there. May it be so.